Synopsis:

Vanauken chronicles the birth of a powerful pagan love borne out of the relationship he shares with his wife, Davy, and describes the growth of their relationship and the dreams that they share.

A beloved, profoundly moving account of the author’s marriage, the couple’s search for faith and friendship with C. S. Lewis, and a spiritual strength that sustained Vanauken after his wife’s untimely death. Replete with 18 letters from C.S. Lewis, A Severe Mercy addresses some of the universal questions that surround faith—the existence of God and the reasons behind tragedy.

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What To Expect:

One part memoir, one part conversion story, and one part reflection on grief, Sheldon Vanauken shares the story of his relationship with his life, as their love matures from a codependent relationship verging on idolatry to one fulfilled by the love of Christ. Readers should be aware that loss and grief play a significant role in this story.

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Content Warnings:

Language: Mild

Sexual Content: Closed door – Mostly kissing with a few references to the couple being intimate together

SPOILER: One instance of sexual harassment and then discussion of its impact on the spiritual life of the victim.

Violence: Mild

Substance Use: Mild – Alcohol, cigarettes, one mention of “getting high,” presumably through marijuana, although this is not specified

Prejudices: Mild sexism – Description of girls as emotionally weak

Religious Themes: A major theme of the book is conversion from atheism to Christianity. Theology is discussed throughout the memoir as well.

Other Topics: Loss of spouse and grief are major theme in the book. Some discussion of the couple choosing to remain childless, but no discussion of contraception.

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